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Thursday, July 09, 2009

Using the Law of Attraction To Get a Mate

Human relationships are challenging. A mate relationship is especially challenging because it is two people growing and changing and journeying wit each other as they do it. Such a relationship gives us a taste of the divine feeling of knowing God, of being loved as an individual human being. Yes relationships can be heavenly!
The hardest part is actually making contact with the person who brings you into a state of bliss. What people commonly want to know is how they can attract a SPECIFIC person that they dream of as their mate.
Can you manifest a relationship with someone specific? The answer is yes and no.
On the "yes" side of the answer, there are two ways in which you could do this. One way is if the other oerson is ambivalent about what they wpnt and you employ your creative powers to specifically manifest this person. However you might not like what the relationships consists of when they arrive because you can manifest the person, but you cannot force them to be the type of person you want them to be. You get the person, "warts and all". Are SURE you want that person?
The second way you can attract a specific person is if that person also wants you and wants what you want. This can occur even if they are not conscious of it. But beyond this it would not be possible because you cannot manifest another person's reality without their will and participation.
On the "no" side of the answer, you cannot mgically force someone to fall in love with you and stay with you forever. Even if you could, that is not love, and love is utimately what you want. You want someone who actually WANTS you and WANTS to be with you because of who you are.
What you are actually desiring to expereince, as I stated earlier, is the presence of God in your life, through an intimate relationship. You want to manifest comfort, peace, love, and security into your life.
The key is to stay focused on the positive feelings that a loving relationship with "someone" will bring us, rather than staying focused on forcing a relationship with a specific person. The right person will then manifest into your life.
If you would like do do some relationship coaching to gain the tools necessary to manifest a good relationship, contact me!
To your relationship success!

Barrett

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