Do You Push Too Hard?
This was the year you were going to manifest more money into your life, exercise more and lose weight, get a better social life, buy your dream house, find a job, get the money to attend your family reunion, get rid of your clutter, eat better, take a decent vacation, etc.
You decided what you wanted, visualized, acted as if had had already received what you wanted.
In the end the result was… NOTHING.
There has been no strong flow of money into your bank account, your closets are just as disorganized and cluttered, you cannot afford a ticket to your family reunion, you have gained 10 pounds, your dream house is nowhere in sight, you are unemployed and you do not have a good group of friends.
Everyday you try harder. You ask yourself why it is not working when you are trying so hard. You ask yourself why, if you are doing everything right, is it not working? Why do you not yet have what you desire?
But…could it be that the answer it you are trying too hard? Trying too hard reveals that you are impatient and in that impatient you want circumstances and people to be to be different. You are too attached to that demand. It is revealing you are resisting change by accepting things the way they are. At this point you start focusing on what you do not want. You are trying too hard to be perfect.
You then begin resisting these feelings and being frustrated because things are not perfect. This feeling of imperfection is energy that is blocking what you want to manifest because that that energy of perfection is RESISTANCE.
By resisting the natural flow of people and circumstances you are operating against the natural and universal Law of Allowing.
The Law of Allowing says that when you let energy flow on its natural course it will eventually be attracted to you and flow in your desired direction. In order to allow this natural flow you must not push against it.
Change feels different. Different can feel uncomfortable. It is like putting on new clothes from the store. Things are a little stiff at first but you quickly adjust and see how good the clothes look on you.
Change means we must stop resisting and start allowing.
STOP RESISTANCE. START ALLOWING
How do you put and end to RESISTANCE and start ALLOWING what you desire to come to you?
Surrender. Abandon the fight. Stop demanding that you know everything, have everything, and look picture perfect while doing everything “just right”. Stop telling yourself you are too busy and learn to appreciate what you have already done, sit down and relax!
When you open yourself to receiving instead of resisting your body and mind relax. You lose the fight or flight response of defensiveness. You stop being impatient with people and angry about the lack of visible appearance of your desire. You become aligned with the Universe and what you desire manifests easily because you are letting the Universe take care of it, instead of you trying to control it. In practical terms this means that you allow people the freedom to be who they are and circumstances to be what they are. You do not “wage a war” against them, fight or resist, even passively. To do so means you are trying to change them.
You are not here in this lifetime to change anyone. We are a diverse world. When you try to change others you create the opposite of what you desire. Accept others as they are; accept that others believe differently than you do. The only person you can successfully change is you. You can change how you relate to other people and how you relate to circumstances.
By changing yourself and the way you relate to people you modify the way they relate to you because you are transforming the energy flow between them and you. By changing the way you feel about and deal with circumstances you change the relationship between a situation and you, because you change the energy. In accepting others as they are, you allow them to grow and to learn for themselves. The Law of Allowing loves diversity!
Diversity is not perfection. Diversity allows people to be themselves.
When we feel resistance to not doing our best, that is, to not being perfect, we can decide to not do our best – and some of us will then do nothing, feel guilty about it and lose our passion.
When you put forth discouraged, depressed, passionless energy like a deflated balloon, you get back from the Universe that same vibration – uninspired, passionless results that you do not want.
When a situation is not what you want you can choose to maintain your joy and your peace or feel impatient, angry and frustrated. You cannot change the circumstances. You can only change how you feel about the situation. You can choose to feel positive about what you have and what you are able to do. You can choose to feel good about the lessons you are learning through the circumstances taking place. You may not have a plane ticket to get to your family reunion but you can transform the energy of the situation for yourself by visualizing how wonderful the reunion will be for everyone attending and feeling happy about that. You can visualize yourself 20 lbs thinner and wearing smaller clothing sizes. You can focus on the ways you can be the kind of person you would like to have in your expanded social circle.
You have the power to allow everything you want to come into your life.
To your success!
You decided what you wanted, visualized, acted as if had had already received what you wanted.
In the end the result was… NOTHING.
There has been no strong flow of money into your bank account, your closets are just as disorganized and cluttered, you cannot afford a ticket to your family reunion, you have gained 10 pounds, your dream house is nowhere in sight, you are unemployed and you do not have a good group of friends.
Everyday you try harder. You ask yourself why it is not working when you are trying so hard. You ask yourself why, if you are doing everything right, is it not working? Why do you not yet have what you desire?
But…could it be that the answer it you are trying too hard? Trying too hard reveals that you are impatient and in that impatient you want circumstances and people to be to be different. You are too attached to that demand. It is revealing you are resisting change by accepting things the way they are. At this point you start focusing on what you do not want. You are trying too hard to be perfect.
You then begin resisting these feelings and being frustrated because things are not perfect. This feeling of imperfection is energy that is blocking what you want to manifest because that that energy of perfection is RESISTANCE.
By resisting the natural flow of people and circumstances you are operating against the natural and universal Law of Allowing.
The Law of Allowing says that when you let energy flow on its natural course it will eventually be attracted to you and flow in your desired direction. In order to allow this natural flow you must not push against it.
Change feels different. Different can feel uncomfortable. It is like putting on new clothes from the store. Things are a little stiff at first but you quickly adjust and see how good the clothes look on you.
Change means we must stop resisting and start allowing.
STOP RESISTANCE. START ALLOWING
How do you put and end to RESISTANCE and start ALLOWING what you desire to come to you?
Surrender. Abandon the fight. Stop demanding that you know everything, have everything, and look picture perfect while doing everything “just right”. Stop telling yourself you are too busy and learn to appreciate what you have already done, sit down and relax!
When you open yourself to receiving instead of resisting your body and mind relax. You lose the fight or flight response of defensiveness. You stop being impatient with people and angry about the lack of visible appearance of your desire. You become aligned with the Universe and what you desire manifests easily because you are letting the Universe take care of it, instead of you trying to control it. In practical terms this means that you allow people the freedom to be who they are and circumstances to be what they are. You do not “wage a war” against them, fight or resist, even passively. To do so means you are trying to change them.
You are not here in this lifetime to change anyone. We are a diverse world. When you try to change others you create the opposite of what you desire. Accept others as they are; accept that others believe differently than you do. The only person you can successfully change is you. You can change how you relate to other people and how you relate to circumstances.
By changing yourself and the way you relate to people you modify the way they relate to you because you are transforming the energy flow between them and you. By changing the way you feel about and deal with circumstances you change the relationship between a situation and you, because you change the energy. In accepting others as they are, you allow them to grow and to learn for themselves. The Law of Allowing loves diversity!
Diversity is not perfection. Diversity allows people to be themselves.
When we feel resistance to not doing our best, that is, to not being perfect, we can decide to not do our best – and some of us will then do nothing, feel guilty about it and lose our passion.
When you put forth discouraged, depressed, passionless energy like a deflated balloon, you get back from the Universe that same vibration – uninspired, passionless results that you do not want.
When a situation is not what you want you can choose to maintain your joy and your peace or feel impatient, angry and frustrated. You cannot change the circumstances. You can only change how you feel about the situation. You can choose to feel positive about what you have and what you are able to do. You can choose to feel good about the lessons you are learning through the circumstances taking place. You may not have a plane ticket to get to your family reunion but you can transform the energy of the situation for yourself by visualizing how wonderful the reunion will be for everyone attending and feeling happy about that. You can visualize yourself 20 lbs thinner and wearing smaller clothing sizes. You can focus on the ways you can be the kind of person you would like to have in your expanded social circle.
You have the power to allow everything you want to come into your life.
To your success!
Barrett
(If you would like speed up the process of mastering your life and allowing what you desire to manifest, starting coachng with me. Spend 3 hours [$1200] and transform your life)
Labels: Law of Allowing, Law of Attraction, Manifesting, Resistance, Success
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7/04/2009 04:00:00 PM
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